Get Back Up Again
- olivierbranford
- Dec 8, 2024
- 5 min read
Updated: Jan 25
It's not your fault if you and your life gets pushed to the floor. It is your fault if you don't get back up again. You may need a helping hand or a guide, but you need to stand tall again.

Always get back up again
Remember who you truly are. Jack Kornfield, who trained as a Buddhist Monk, and is a great teacher of mindfulness meditation, wrote "The heart of most spiritual practices is simply this: Remember who you are. Remember what you love. Remember what is sacred. Remember what is true. Remember that you will die and that this day is a gift. Remember how you wish to live." Remember your highest possibility.
Here is my article on '20 Things You Can Do in a Crisis':
Ask for help if you need it from someone who is prepared to listen intently such as an Enlightened Witness or a Transformative Life Coach (TLC).
Take action. Taking action is the greatest fear-killer. Realise deeply that you can handle it. Realise that you are much stronger than you think. Realise that you can outgrow your problems - you don't need to 'fix' them. Realise that storms come to clear your path.
Choose to be a victor, not a victim. It's never what happens that determines how we feel - it's how we respond. Choose to act from your Higher Self. There is absolutely no possibility of transformation, growth, or recovery if you choose to act and remain as a victim.
If you are reading this, then the chances are that you have had a cataclysmic event in your life, that you are looking for a programme for living, that you are struggling in some way, that you would like to access your Higher Power but are not sure how to do that, that you want leadership coaching, or that you are embarking on a journey of Transformative Life Coaching (TLC).
Regardless of how you got here, and regardless of your 'problem', your first few steps will be the same in order to heal, recover, and fly in your life...
Here are 'Your First Steps' to recovering your new life:
Click here for my article on 'A Life of Two Halves: Falling Upward':
Here is my article on 'How to Deal With Any Adversity':
This too shall pass. All is well and all shall be well. Don't panic. Don't fix you: Outgrow your problems. Even if you think that you are living in hell right now; there is a solution. You will rise again. Choose triumph over tears.
Now you rise. Feel the fear and do it anyway. You can handle it. There is a well trodden journey from pain to peace. It's important that you love your fate: As the Stoics say 'Amor Fati'.
For my article 'Resurrection is The Metaphor For Your Transformation' click here:
You need to move from surviving to thriving. You don't need to hit rock bottom. You are the doorway to the infinite. It's time to invoke your 'God Mode'.
Click here for my article 'Your Life Has Crashed: What Now? The 7 Steps To The Life of Your Dreams':
To hell with the knocks, just stand up again.
Namaste.
Olly
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My gift is to be your guide on your very own 'Hero's Journey'...
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