The Brash Voice Versus The Still Quiet Voice
- olivierbranford
- May 31, 2024
- 4 min read
Updated: Jan 28
Life is pretty straightforward really. You either choose to follow your ego or your Higher Power in every moment where you need to make a choice.
Your ego is your contracted, petrified seven-year-old self, and your Higher Power is the deepest, assertive, sacred, inner true you.
Your ego speaks with a loud, brash voice and makes demands like a 'King Baby', feeling that they must be in total control and yet feeling utterly unworthy at the same time. Your Higher Power speaks with a still, quiet voice, which comes from a divine Source.
The ego lives in an illusory world of fear: A self-imposed prison. The Higher Self lives in a world of love, compassion, and freedom.
This table shows the differences between how the two voices compare in a variety of circumstances:

This table shows the existential differences between your ego (your wounded self or inner child) and your Higher Self (Higher Power):

Michael A. Singer, who wrote the brilliant book 'Living Untethered', which I live by and is in my suggested reading list, said that "There is nothing more important to true growth than realising that you are not the voice of the mind - you are the one who hears it."
It's a no-brainer as to who I follow and who I choose to run my life now. How about you?
Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you: Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you.
George Bernard Shaw wrote that “Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” Are you ready to change your mind?
Namaste.
Olly
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