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Would You Like To Reconnect With Your Natural State of Joy, Peace, Love, and Abundance?

Updated: Feb 27

Would you like to reconnect with your natural state of joy, peace, ecstasy, bliss, balance, harmony, compassion, giving, abundance, and love? These upward flows of energy that revitalise you, core values, and divine virtues are all accessible to you. But you don't access them: This is your only problem: Stop storing 'rubbish' inside of you. I don't mean to be harsh and I do not judge you. You are only suffering from the human condition. We all have it: But it needn't be that way. There is a beautiful life that everyone can live. Why don't human beings all feel psychologically healthy all of the time? Your seat of consciousness, your natural state inside of you, your heart, and your Higher Self, are all possible for you and accessible to you. There is a constant flow of energy feeding you day and night, all the time. That's your background. That's your support structure. The body knows how to take care of your Self. There is a natural system of intelligence that is way beyond that which is needed to simply support the material body.


But, you stored events that you couldn't handle inside of you. That makes it bothered inside of you. It messed up your entire natural system. Don't worry, everyone is the same until they wake up. That's why your natural energy flow cannot take care of you. You have resisted events in your life that you couldn't handle. What's the solution? If you stop storing things inside of you, you will find out that it's very beautiful inside. The energy of the Universe didn't flow through you because you stopped it. You are the only one in there. It's your choice: It truly is. Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote that "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." Your Higher Self is what lies within you, sometimes dormant.


You push away things that you think you can’t handle and that leaves Samskaras (psychological and spiritual imprints that are like scars to your psyche, that then colour your thoughts, feelings, and actions). You resisted the passage of that event as it passed through you. You couldn't 'digest' these events. This, in psychological and spiritual terms, is also known as denial, suppression, repression, and resistance. You are locked into the cage that you made for your Self. But you have the key. The two domains of psychology and spirituality are metaphors for each other. It is no coincidence that Carl Gustav Jung was both a psychological and spiritual Master. These Samskaras create disturbance. Your energy flow rises up and hits these scars and creates primal fear and anxiety. Does this resonate with you? Is this where you are living right now? You don't have to...

Would you like to reconnect with your natural state of joy, peace, love, and abundance?


You may compensate for what you shoved down and stored inside of you (if you stored it then you can let it go); or cleanse so that joy and love energy can rise inside of you. This is what living spiritually means: It means to understand if there is anything triggering inside of you it’s only because you stored it there. This is what the mind repeats incessantly to you. It goes round and round in circles of saying "I am not okay and how can I change the world to be OK?" That’s because you’re not OK. The answer is not to go out there and make things the way you need them to be: That’s ridiculous and you can't fight the Universe anyway. You’ll spend your entire life fighting to make everything OK. Getting exactly what you want is truly so overrated. The spiritual path is to realise this. Spiritual evolution means to stop worrying.


Getting rid of why you need things is permanent. If you need people to respect and love you it’s because you’re not OK within your Self. You don’t feel whole as you blocked and stored all that stuff inside, so you don’t feel the natural flow of energy coming up. Because you don’t feel it you seek joy, peace, and love outside of your Self. And this never works in the long run. It’s not about renouncing the world. It’s about looking at why you are interacting with the world in the way that you do. You interact in this way because you don’t feel OK and you’re trying to get what you need from outside of your Self. That makes you feel triggered with fear and anxiety. I think you’ll find that this is the entire basis of this dis-ease that you are experiencing There is a better way to do it: Get rid of these blockages that you stored inside your Self. As you work on not putting more in, you start having better days. 


You might be asking yourself, “Am I going to be OK?”  Always remember, in life, everything you experience is temporary. While you might be struggling with a million things right now, it’s important to remember that it’s temporary, and that’s a good thing. This too shall pass. All is very well. You’re going to be OK. Life will continue to unfold. Bad days eventually turn into good days. Sometimes, we feel defeated. We feel as if all of it isn't worth the trouble. Sometimes, it can feel like everything is falling apart, and there seems to be no joyful ending in sight. However, don't lose hope. Life is full of surprises and mysteries. What's meant to be will always be, no matter what. So relax, don't worry, and just be your Self. 


Rise above anything you did that ‘hurt’ anyone including your Self when you were out of balance (and out of your mind). You have grown since then and you are not the same human BEing or spirit. There is no place for guilt or shame on this path. If you had known better, you would have done better. You are now learning behaviour patterns that are more loving, gentle, kind, compassionate, and caring. No shame, no blame. If the same situation arose today, would you do the same thing? The answer is “Of course not”. Then you have grown. Otherwise, you are holding your self back to where you were before. 


If you don’t judge what you did then you don’t need forgiving. Life is about freedom, joy, and inspiration. Just stop storing all that stuff in there. 


What does it mean to be strong? It means being powerful enough so that you don’t have to put a barrier up under any condition. Real strength is not having to defend your Self because you can handle the moment that passes through you. Learn how to deal with life with the low hanging fruit and gradually that will allow you to deal with the bigger things. Start practising letting go. It means that instead of pushing things away, just let them pass through and go. This is practising the 'sport' of spiritual growth. Just keep relaxing past the part of you that wants to resist. Suffering is pain times resistance. So, if you have no resistance, you have no suffering. Let go of the things that have already happened that you have resisted. Get better at accepting and honouring life. The more you practice, like a sport, the more it will work for you. You don’t interact with it because you think you can’t handle it. If you think you can’t handle it then don’t do it right now. Let go of the part of you that can’t handle it (the ego) and then interact. Your Higher Self can handle anything. When you interact from a place of total clarity then everything will be fine. You are a letting go machine. You just don’t realise it yet. You can handle it. This is the key to joy, peace, and love. All three of these core values and virtues are the result of inner work.


There is beauty in your consciousness. That's what Namaste means: "That which is the God within me respects the God that is in you". Compassion is that 'I don't have to be him' but you have openness, understanding, and love for everybody. So, you end up not judging. Christ said "Judge not, that ye shall not be judged" (Matthew 7:1). Don't judge anybody. When you come from a higher place, you stop judging. Then you just love you and you don't want anything back. Just get open. It all stops. All that is going on inside then is joy, love, peace, and beauty. That's what 'Siddhartha' was about - he became completely at peace. That's what you could do in your life, unless you think it is about getting what you want, and not getting what you don't want. If you look back, that way is not pretty - it makes you a taker. Use this to let go of your lower self (your ego). What is it like to feel the Shakti (Shakti in Hinduism is the "Universal Power" that underlies and sustains all existence - the divine mother)? It's like the highest moment of love and joy. The Shakti hits the blockages and dislodges them. The flow of pure love can be lived in as your natural state. The bliss of BEing (Sat-Chit-Ananda - consciousness, BEing, bliss) can become your every day state. This epithet is a description for the subjective experience of the ultimate unchanging reality, called Brahman, in certain branches of Hindu philosophy, especially Vedanta.


You have locked your Self in a little cage. But you are a beautiful BEing of pure light. God-realisation is your career, your life-purpose, your spiritual blueprint. You are serving: You don't need to do work. All you did was to respect the flow of life that was passing before you and serve it to the best of your ability. Let go of your lower self: In every situation. Those situations will mirror your Self. You are not surrendering life: You are letting go of the part of you that can't handle life. Life is bringing itself to you. This is how to live inside your Self. It has been said that "Problems are the nectar of life", as they are showing you where you need to grow. This is how you become a person who can handle life. The Shakti will push your stuff up naturally, when it's ready. You just need to learn to let go. It's like a 'soul birth'. Jesus said in John 3:7 "You must be born again." The pain that you stored from the past needs to come back up and you breathe through it. On the other side is complete liberation, complete freedom. The only thing that your mind then ever thinks about is what is in front of it: As Ram Dass said "Be here, now." Imagine never worrying or being afraid any more. You don't need to defend your Self. This is the meaning of your life. You are a great BEing - you just have to be willing to let go of your ego and not store the rubbish inside of you. You can handle it.


Namaste.


Sending you love, light, and blessings brothers.


Olly



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